diff --git a/migration/migration.c b/migration/migration.c
index 455ddc896a..e875ea0d6b 100644
--- a/migration/migration.c
+++ b/migration/migration.c
@@ -1393,6 +1393,17 @@ bool migration_in_postcopy(void)
     }
 }
 
+bool migration_postcopy_is_alive(int state)
+{
+    switch (state) {
+    case MIGRATION_STATUS_POSTCOPY_ACTIVE:
+    case MIGRATION_STATUS_POSTCOPY_RECOVER:
+        return true;
+    default:
+        return false;
+    }
+}
+
 bool migration_in_postcopy_after_devices(MigrationState *s)
 {
     return migration_in_postcopy() && s->postcopy_after_devices;
@@ -1673,8 +1684,15 @@ void qmp_migrate_pause(Error **errp)
     MigrationIncomingState *mis = migration_incoming_get_current();
     int ret = 0;
 
-    if (ms->state == MIGRATION_STATUS_POSTCOPY_ACTIVE) {
+    if (migration_postcopy_is_alive(ms->state)) {
         /* Source side, during postcopy */
+        Error *error = NULL;
+
+        /* Tell the core migration that we're pausing */
+        error_setg(&error, "Postcopy migration is paused by the user");
+        migrate_set_error(ms, error);
+        error_free(error);
+
         qemu_mutex_lock(&ms->qemu_file_lock);
         if (ms->to_dst_file) {
             ret = qemu_file_shutdown(ms->to_dst_file);
@@ -1683,10 +1701,17 @@ void qmp_migrate_pause(Error **errp)
         if (ret) {
             error_setg(errp, "Failed to pause source migration");
         }
+
+        /*
+         * Kick the migration thread out of any waiting windows (on behalf
+         * of the rp thread).
+         */
+        migration_rp_kick(ms);
+
         return;
     }
 
-    if (mis->state == MIGRATION_STATUS_POSTCOPY_ACTIVE) {
+    if (migration_postcopy_is_alive(mis->state)) {
         ret = qemu_file_shutdown(mis->from_src_file);
         if (ret) {
             error_setg(errp, "Failed to pause destination migration");
@@ -1695,7 +1720,7 @@ void qmp_migrate_pause(Error **errp)
     }
 
     error_setg(errp, "migrate-pause is currently only supported "
-               "during postcopy-active state");
+               "during postcopy-active or postcopy-recover state");
 }
 
 bool migration_is_blocked(Error **errp)
@@ -1882,9 +1907,21 @@ void qmp_migrate_continue(MigrationStatus state, Error **errp)
     qemu_sem_post(&s->pause_sem);
 }
 
-void migration_rp_wait(MigrationState *s)
+int migration_rp_wait(MigrationState *s)
 {
+    /* If migration has failure already, ignore the wait */
+    if (migrate_has_error(s)) {
+        return -1;
+    }
+
     qemu_sem_wait(&s->rp_state.rp_sem);
+
+    /* After wait, double check that there's no failure */
+    if (migrate_has_error(s)) {
+        return -1;
+    }
+
+    return 0;
 }
 
 void migration_rp_kick(MigrationState *s)
@@ -2146,6 +2183,20 @@ out:
         trace_source_return_path_thread_bad_end();
     }
 
+    if (ms->state == MIGRATION_STATUS_POSTCOPY_RECOVER) {
+        /*
+         * this will be extremely unlikely: that we got yet another network
+         * issue during recovering of the 1st network failure.. during this
+         * period the main migration thread can be waiting on rp_sem for
+         * this thread to sync with the other side.
+         *
+         * When this happens, explicitly kick the migration thread out of
+         * RECOVER stage and back to PAUSED, so the admin can try
+         * everything again.
+         */
+        migration_rp_kick(ms);
+    }
+
     trace_source_return_path_thread_end();
     rcu_unregister_thread();
 
@@ -2611,7 +2662,9 @@ static int postcopy_resume_handshake(MigrationState *s)
     qemu_savevm_send_postcopy_resume(s->to_dst_file);
 
     while (s->state == MIGRATION_STATUS_POSTCOPY_RECOVER) {
-        migration_rp_wait(s);
+        if (migration_rp_wait(s)) {
+            return -1;
+        }
     }
 
     if (s->state == MIGRATION_STATUS_POSTCOPY_ACTIVE) {
diff --git a/migration/migration.h b/migration/migration.h
index 615b517594..af8c965b7f 100644
--- a/migration/migration.h
+++ b/migration/migration.h
@@ -494,6 +494,7 @@ int migrate_init(MigrationState *s, Error **errp);
 bool migration_is_blocked(Error **errp);
 /* True if outgoing migration has entered postcopy phase */
 bool migration_in_postcopy(void);
+bool migration_postcopy_is_alive(int state);
 MigrationState *migrate_get_current(void);
 
 uint64_t ram_get_total_transferred_pages(void);
@@ -534,8 +535,11 @@ void migration_populate_vfio_info(MigrationInfo *info);
 void migration_reset_vfio_bytes_transferred(void);
 void postcopy_temp_page_reset(PostcopyTmpPage *tmp_page);
 
-/* Migration thread waiting for return path thread. */
-void migration_rp_wait(MigrationState *s);
+/*
+ * Migration thread waiting for return path thread.  Return non-zero if an
+ * error is detected.
+ */
+int migration_rp_wait(MigrationState *s);
 /*
  * Kick the migration thread waiting for return path messages.  NOTE: the
  * name can be slightly confusing (when read as "kick the rp thread"), just
diff --git a/migration/ram.c b/migration/ram.c
index d05ffddbc8..929cba08f4 100644
--- a/migration/ram.c
+++ b/migration/ram.c
@@ -4099,7 +4099,9 @@ static int ram_dirty_bitmap_sync_all(MigrationState *s, RAMState *rs)
 
     /* Wait until all the ramblocks' dirty bitmap synced */
     while (qatomic_read(&rs->postcopy_bmap_sync_requested)) {
-        migration_rp_wait(s);
+        if (migration_rp_wait(s)) {
+            return -1;
+        }
     }
 
     trace_ram_dirty_bitmap_sync_complete();