gh-112075: Add try-incref functions from nogil branch for use in dict thread safety (#114512)

* Bring in a subset of biased reference counting:
https://github.com/colesbury/nogil/commit/b6b12a9a94e

The NoGIL branch has functions for attempting to do an incref on an object which may or may not be in flight. This just brings those functions over so that they will be usable from in the dict implementation to get items w/o holding a lock.

There's a handful of small simple modifications:

    Adding inline to the force inline functions to avoid a warning, and switching from _Py_ALWAYS_INLINE to Py_ALWAYS_INLINE as that's available
    Remove _Py_REF_LOCAL_SHIFT as it doesn't exist yet (and is currently 0 in the 3.12 nogil branch anyway)
    ob_ref_shared is currently Py_ssize_t and not uint32_t, so use that
    _PY_LIKELY doesn't exist, so drop it
    _Py_ThreadLocal becomes _Py_IsOwnedByCurrentThread
    Add '_PyInterpreterState_GET()' to _Py_IncRefTotal calls.


Co-Authored-By: Sam Gross <colesbury@gmail.com>

Include/internal/pycore_object.h

@@ -376,6 +376,142 @@ static inline void _PyObject_GC_UNTRACK(
         _PyObject_GC_UNTRACK(__FILE__, __LINE__, _PyObject_CAST(op))
 #endif
 
+#ifdef Py_GIL_DISABLED
+
+/* Tries to increment an object's reference count
+ *
+ * This is a specialized version of _Py_TryIncref that only succeeds if the
+ * object is immortal or local to this thread. It does not handle the case
+ * where the  reference count modification requires an atomic operation. This
+ * allows call sites to specialize for the immortal/local case.
+ */
+static inline int
+_Py_TryIncrefFast(PyObject *op) {
+    uint32_t local = _Py_atomic_load_uint32_relaxed(&op->ob_ref_local);
+    local += 1;
+    if (local == 0) {
+        // immortal
+        return 1;
+    }
+    if (_Py_IsOwnedByCurrentThread(op)) {
+        _Py_INCREF_STAT_INC();
+        _Py_atomic_store_uint32_relaxed(&op->ob_ref_local, local);
+#ifdef Py_REF_DEBUG
+        _Py_IncRefTotal(_PyInterpreterState_GET());
+#endif
+        return 1;
+    }
+    return 0;
+}
+
+static inline int
+_Py_TryIncRefShared(PyObject *op)
+{
+    Py_ssize_t shared = _Py_atomic_load_ssize_relaxed(&op->ob_ref_shared);
+    for (;;) {
+        // If the shared refcount is zero and the object is either merged
+        // or may not have weak references, then we cannot incref it.
+        if (shared == 0 || shared == _Py_REF_MERGED) {
+            return 0;
+        }
+
+        if (_Py_atomic_compare_exchange_ssize(
+                &op->ob_ref_shared,
+                &shared,
+                shared + (1 << _Py_REF_SHARED_SHIFT))) {
+#ifdef Py_REF_DEBUG
+            _Py_IncRefTotal(_PyInterpreterState_GET());
+#endif
+            _Py_INCREF_STAT_INC();
+            return 1;
+        }
+    }
+}
+
+/* Tries to incref the object op and ensures that *src still points to it. */
+static inline int
+_Py_TryIncref(PyObject **src, PyObject *op)
+{
+    if (_Py_TryIncrefFast(op)) {
+        return 1;
+    }
+    if (!_Py_TryIncRefShared(op)) {
+        return 0;
+    }
+    if (op != _Py_atomic_load_ptr(src)) {
+        Py_DECREF(op);
+        return 0;
+    }
+    return 1;
+}
+
+/* Loads and increfs an object from ptr, which may contain a NULL value.
+   Safe with concurrent (atomic) updates to ptr.
+   NOTE: The writer must set maybe-weakref on the stored object! */
+static inline PyObject *
+_Py_XGetRef(PyObject **ptr)
+{
+    for (;;) {
+        PyObject *value = _Py_atomic_load_ptr(ptr);
+        if (value == NULL) {
+            return value;
+        }
+        if (_Py_TryIncref(ptr, value)) {
+            return value;
+        }
+    }
+}
+
+/* Attempts to loads and increfs an object from ptr. Returns NULL
+   on failure, which may be due to a NULL value or a concurrent update. */
+static inline PyObject *
+_Py_TryXGetRef(PyObject **ptr)
+{
+    PyObject *value = _Py_atomic_load_ptr(ptr);
+    if (value == NULL) {
+        return value;
+    }
+    if (_Py_TryIncref(ptr, value)) {
+        return value;
+    }
+    return NULL;
+}
+
+/* Like Py_NewRef but also optimistically sets _Py_REF_MAYBE_WEAKREF
+   on objects owned by a different thread. */
+static inline PyObject *
+_Py_NewRefWithLock(PyObject *op)
+{
+    if (_Py_TryIncrefFast(op)) {
+        return op;
+    }
+    _Py_INCREF_STAT_INC();
+    for (;;) {
+        Py_ssize_t shared = _Py_atomic_load_ssize_relaxed(&op->ob_ref_shared);
+        Py_ssize_t new_shared = shared + (1 << _Py_REF_SHARED_SHIFT);
+        if ((shared & _Py_REF_SHARED_FLAG_MASK) == 0) {
+            new_shared |= _Py_REF_MAYBE_WEAKREF;
+        }
+        if (_Py_atomic_compare_exchange_ssize(
+                &op->ob_ref_shared,
+                &shared,
+                new_shared)) {
+            return op;
+        }
+    }
+}
+
+static inline PyObject *
+_Py_XNewRefWithLock(PyObject *obj)
+{
+    if (obj == NULL) {
+        return NULL;
+    }
+    return _Py_NewRefWithLock(obj);
+}
+
+#endif
+
 #ifdef Py_REF_DEBUG
 extern void _PyInterpreterState_FinalizeRefTotal(PyInterpreterState *);
 extern void _Py_FinalizeRefTotal(_PyRuntimeState *);