more specific registry index not found msg
### What does this PR try to resolve?
covers #12576
### How should we test and review this PR?
test covers exact text, so a review and passing tests.
Originally, crates.io would block on publish requests until the publish
was complete, giving `cargo publish` this behavior by extension. When
crates.io switched to asynchronous publishing, this intermittently broke
people's workflows when publishing multiple crates. I say interittent
because it usually works until it doesn't and it is unclear why to the
end user because it will be published by the time they check. In the
end, callers tend to either put in timeouts (and pray), poll the
server's API, or use `crates-index` crate to poll the index.
This isn't sufficient because
- For any new interested party, this is a pit of failure they'll fall
into
- crates-index has re-implemented index support incorrectly in the past,
currently doesn't handle auth, doesn't support `git-cli`, etc.
- None of these previous options work if we were to implement
workspace-publish support (#1169)
- The new sparse registry might increase the publish times, making the
delay easier to hit manually
- The new sparse registry goes through CDNs so checking the server's API
might not be sufficient
- Once the sparse registry is available, crates-index users will find
out when the package is ready in git but it might not be ready through
the sparse registry because of CDNs
So now `cargo` will block until it sees the package in the index.
- This is checking via the index instead of server APIs in case there
are propagation delays. This has the side effect of being noisy
because of all of the "Updating index" messages.
- This is done unconditionally because cargo used to block and that
didn't seem to be a problem, blocking by default is the less error
prone case, and there doesn't seem to be enough justification for a
"don't block" flag.
The timeout was 5min but I dropped it to 1m. Unfortunately, I don't
have data from `cargo-release` to know what a reasonable timeout is, so
going ahead and dropping to 60s and assuming anything more is an outage.
Fixes#9507
